Dear SP readers: I found out about my man's other woman via BB

From a female SP reader

It started about two months ago. There was
this contact on my BB who updated her
status based on what was happening with

my man. One day she updated 'my boo is
back, so happy'. My boyfriend had just
returned from a trip to Europe. I didn't think
much of it until she updated her status
again saying she was in Port Harcourt. My
boyfriend had left for Port Harcourt two days
earlier. Then on January 22nd, she wished
her boo a happy birthday. January 22nd is
my boyfriend's birthday. Then on Val's day,
she updated her status wishing her man a
happy val's day and said she wished he
was in town so she could spoil him. He was
in South Africa with me. We returned on the
17th of February and when I checked her
status, she'd updated with 'my boo is back'
with love emoticon. I knew then that we
were dating the same man. I confronted the
idiot and he denied it so I decided to chat
with the lady on my bb to find out more
though I didn't let her know I was with the
same man. She didn't mention his name but
everything else she said proved it was him.
He's been dating the lady for about 9
months. I've been with him for almost 2
years. Well, I have decided to dump his ass.
I will not share a man with a cream seller. I
buy my body cream from this lady and
that's why she's on bb, not because she's
my friend. So she can keep him seeing that
he has no class. And you ode, I'm done
with you.